Vietnamese wife, NT $ 35,000: Non-virgin? Replacement; escape? Guarantee to pay compensations
2010-01-31 01:58:09 Source: Netease woman forum
Beginning in 2008, “to go to Vietnam to marry his wife becomes more and more fire, some claim can not stand the bachelors of the city” Material Girl “, through various channels, across borders, to dream of paradise – Vietnam. Recently, the Internet burst – a married man to spend NT $ 35,000, married back the event of the best Vietnamese wife, netizens once again broke out in the marriage in the end is about feelings, or “buy a wife” controversy.
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Just NT $ 35,000, the Vietnamese wife “married” to go home
(Taiwan News Online reported on January 29) in Nanjing, two married men Daimou only spent NT $ 35,000 from Vietnam, “married” to come back a wife, known as: greed, not lazy, not casually, not arrogant worships money, young, beautiful, hard-working, virtuous, the key is to listen. “” wife “of the whole process, are: spend 80 yuan on the Vietnam domestic mainstream media, published Personals – looking for a local translation of Vietnam – -35,000 15 days to choose from more than 40 Vietnamese girl – feast, for the relevant marriages. After his Vietnamese wife brought home
Vietnamese brides in Taiwan street advertising (image above NT $ 200,000)
It is said that the old Dai decided to go to Vietnam to marry his wife’s why Network article titled “$ 20,000, Vietnam to buy a beautiful wife”. Numerous references to the article, here is the “big shots”, you can easily find wife is absolutely obedient – obedient to let you fall. In Vietnam, you just find the local “nourishing mother” (matchmaker), spend money on a blind date, there will be countless Vietnamese girls line up to marry you. “Nourishing mother” in the ad made all kinds of assurance – three months married back, will not fare, lose a run away within one year.
The old worn and his new wife A silver
Now, the Vietnamese wife of silver has lived with him in Nanjing, in addition to laundry and cooking at home to clean up old wearing the wife is up to accompany him to the company to look at, and followed the teacher of the dance studio to learn to dance, by the way a practice the Chinese. Old wear seems to be very happy, since many times in Vietnam, “Vietnamese brides” to the identity of the tour guides to help a friend find.
NetEase emotional onlookers Mission: What else to marry a Vietnamese wife?
In order to understand the Vietnamese wife, Netease woman emotional editing routinely convened onlookers group came to express their views and comments. This issue, we chose two men and two women crowd the PK, in the face of a Vietnamese wife, the views of men and women there will be collisions?
Question 1 on the 35,000 married a Vietnamese wife “This thing, we first respective form a state.
Male lead: quite interested in a matter of fact, but think about it really is a lot wrong with the Vietnamese woman really that good? We do not know. , Etc. I can not find a wife may be considered to …
M II: I think it difficult to wives of men may be very interested in, but to find a girlfriend in the country, to love and live together with their women, who all toss to go to Vietnam? Going to Vietnam travel, love at first sight, have real feelings with others married back that can be considered a return.
Female one: just as some Chinese women want to marry a foreigner, like Vietnamese women are not the same kinds of psychological? It touches the Chinese men to Chinese women marrying foreigners despise endless, but then Vietnamese woman willing to marry their own and be happy. What state of mind ah.
Female II: Transnational marriage is normal, to be made cheaper to buy is not of men. Say that the Chinese woman should be married to the United States.
Question 2 compared with Chinese women, “the Vietnamese wife of what the strengths and weaknesses?
Male lead: the advantage is beautiful virtuous cheap, the drawback is obviously not the right mentality and married his wife became the bought wife, too many factors of marital instability.
M II: the advantage is “not greedy lazy, do not casually not arrogant worships money and not the young pretty industrious and virtuous, the key is obedient.”, The disadvantage is not based on feelings, marriage has become the trading.
The female lead: I think that advantage can not be called the advantage of many of China’s beautiful and wonderful they are so-called advantages of local economic conditions and traditional practices. Shortcomings, not to mention the man mind is clear.
Female II: The advantage is relatively low cost, and relatively cheap to marry back. Chinese woman a lot of pressure, because the Chinese men can afford to raise a few wife. Vietnamese women do not work, like at home.
Question 3 seems to have a large number of men envy and agree to marry a Vietnamese wife, what is the state of mind?
Male lead: cost-effective … cost-effective. In fact, also a lot of money, but converted into yuan a bargain.
M II: a sense of accomplishment, and cost-effective, pay less. Having said that, we may be have Figure fresh mentality, but really action may be limited.
Female one: marry, when indeed give some men a sense of accomplishment, and spend less. But have not thought about, and Chinese wife, they can do? The beginning you only invest tens of thousands in the future, you want to keep her life you can accept? Mainland wife whatever the outcome of his work also took part in to support their families! This calculation of economic accounts appears to marry Vietnamese wife may not be cost-effective.
Female on the 2nd: Who would not want good! Vietnamese women hesitate away from home, away from the motherland to marry you, not because of the excellent local men from this point to see the female of the requirements in Vietnam is not the lowest. You marry her once integrated into, look at you the next Zhang carpenter built a small building, the door Lee chef to buy a car, she will be completely indifferent, and my heart can not afford a little ripple? Used to be at first glance are the beast, and now the world next door to door is Petty, of contrasting, with up space, do you think that Vietnamese women will, as always, require low?
. “Married” to the Vietnamese wife, you love it?
Male lead: I believe that feelings can develop. Void of love, can not say that there is not met. Despite being bought, but I think this time to spend money to eat, watching movies, the park and so on, love is the same.
M II: It should not … but he could not love it. Decided to do these is to “marry” the idea of holding the country did not marry her abroad to talk about feelings.
The female lead: I guess not. This in the country to buy a wife from the traffickers hands what’s the difference? Is nothing more than cross-country, or the law.
The woman on the 2nd: If it is for life you want to feelings of happiness before doing such a choice, I totally agree. Want to meet their own machismo to do, of course, no feelings, a long time, you will also feel that a happy life?
[Crowd unity theory]
It seems that men are the best Vietnamese wife has a more or less interested in even aspire to. But carefully considered down, there is still a barrier discourse, ideological incompatibility, complicated procedures, escape risk and many other issues. Be able to find the wife of a man in the country, mostly too lazy to bother to bother to marry back into a Vietnamese wife. Moreover, the step holding cost attitude, fancy appearance on pay directly to talk about the feelings of the minimal increase risk for marriage.
Marriage as a man and a woman so simple, registration of marriage itself is the naive view of an immature person. Speaking last, instead of going to Vietnam to buy a wife, it is better to improve their ability, good luck elsewhere, with the sincere, and married a like-minded daughter-in-law of sexual gratification, this is the right way.
NetEase users something to say –
“Marry a Vietnamese wife, young, beautiful, a virgin, virtuous
NetEase Shanghai friends: Vietnam does beauty more, have not been do not talk nonsense, I have been to Mong Cai there. Also do not know the English level of ordinary Vietnamese girl of the family what if daily communication and exchange space, and wife to marry a Vietnamese beauty also is not as non-.
NetEase Jiangsu Nanjing friends: married and is a full-time housewife, and ministered to her in-laws husband that is none at home without the nanny.
“Keep a Vietnamese woman happy, raising the Chinese women would not be happy?”
Users of NetEase Beijing: Chinese man complained that the Chinese woman saw a foreigner talk about love, saw their own men to talk about economic conditions. Chinese men, however, is never too Vietnamese woman talk about economic conditions, not only spend money to marry back, but also no regrets possessor. Chinese women rely on men to support men ye not happy?
NetEase Guangdong User: It is undeniable that Vietnam is indeed sexist, but someday a man poor, seriously ill, people thrown not dump you, because your motives, and they married motivation was originally purchased.
Wife risky to marry a Vietnamese wife to be careful
NetEase users in Chengdu, Sichuan: Come on, a few days before the news appeared in a place where Vietnamese wife collective run things, cheated several farmers called a Cana, careful now, kindly persuade you!
NetEase Beijing User: halo, to buy his wife and married his wife is a concept you? Married to wife love to accompany you drawing near, and you watch TV with movies that under gossip? When you were not going well, to raise you?
Beginning in 2008, “to go to Vietnam to marry his wife becomes more and more fire, some claim can not stand the bachelors of the city” Material Girl “, through various channels across the border, to dream of paradise – Vietnam. Recently, on-line burst of a married man married back in 35,000 of the best Vietnamese wife events, netizens once again broke out in a marriage in the end to talk about feelings or about “buying a wife” big debate.
Vietnamese woman look like? There are pictures and the truth
Writer Lin Yutang constantly Imagine this ideal life – to marry a Japanese woman to wife, looking for a French woman in love, hired a Chinese chef, looking for a British butler cuisine domestic. Lin Yutang can live up to now, his vision must be to marry a Vietnamese girl wife. So that his vision will be realized.
Please dear girl a cup of coffee, 20,000 VND. A taxi, 100,000 VND. First go to the woman’s home, bought a 200,000 VND fruit. Dinner, seafood dinner, VND 300 000 … you in advance to find out, one yuan exchange VND 2700. In other words, a cup of coffee in Vietnam, two people as long as seven yuan to get within 100 yuan a gift to the woman home.
Through marriage, can help to raise from the bride and her family to be able to solve part of the problem of poverty in Vietnam; Vietnamese brides every year to send money home at least $ 2,000, which is the urgent need of foreign exchange earnings of Vietnam, to help more.
Vietnamese brides on the site woman
Vietnamese brides on the site woman
Captured the hearts of countless men’s Vietnam “selection of beauty,” according to
Nanjing married man Daimou only spent NT $ 35,000 from Vietnam, “married” to come back a wife, “not greedy lazy, do not casually not proud not worships money, beautiful young industrious and virtuous, the key is obedient,” friends with “the best “to describe wife of Daimou. Going to Vietnam to marry his wife “has become in recent years, part of the bachelor choose, there are also netizens questioned this” buying a wife. ”
A silver and old wear
Vietnamese girl A silver
Taiwan News Online January 29 report writer Lin Yutang has constantly Imagine this ideal life – to marry a Japanese woman wife, looking for a French woman in love, hired a Chinese chef, looking for a British butler cuisine domestic. Lin Yutang can live up to now, his vision must be to marry a Vietnamese girl wife. So that his vision will be realized. – Reporter’s notes
A silver and old wear
Vietnamese girl A silver
Former girlfriend to buy things definitely go to the big shopping malls, now go to the big market will be satisfied. “Has been the second marriage of the old worn talking about just returned from Vietnam.” Marry “his wife back A silver, always face the well-being . Beginning in 2008, “to go to Vietnam to marry his wife” has been spread by the Pearl River Delta in remote rural to Jiangsu, Zhejiang, some claiming to be unable to endure the bachelors of the city “Material Girl”, through various channels across the border, came to the dream ” beautiful paradise “- Vietnam. Numerous posts on the Internet to remind them that you are “big shots”, you can easily find a wife is absolutely obedient – obedient to let you fall.
Is this really true? “Vietnamese marriage,” the topic again sizzling on the network once again broke out in the marriage debate in the end is to talk about feelings or about “buying a wife”. Reporters track the Nanjing man, who had traveled to Vietnam to find the other half of everything than we imagined more “interesting”.
Users was “shocked”
Please dear girl a cup of coffee, 20,000 VND; a taxi, 100,000 VND; go to the woman’s home for the first time, bought a 200,000 VND fruit; dinner, seafood dinner, VND 300 000 … you prior to clear one yuan convertible 2700 VND. In other words, a cup of coffee in Vietnam, two people as long as seven yuan; get a gift to the woman home 100 yuan!
And the old worn every been to the people of Vietnam always remind myself that “I am wealthy, I was a wealthy due to the economic level is underdeveloped, so many girls of the local initiation of the idea to marry a foreigner. “Remember, we are foreigners. Old to wear the other half of the final selected Jiao silver, three sisters are married to a Chinese. A sister married a sister married the Lao Zhangren a local regarded come a long face. ”
How good old wearing this Vietnamese wife, users have the “best” to describe. “Not greedy lazy, do not casually not arrogant worships money and not the young pretty industrious and virtuous, the key is obedient.” Two married men in Vietnam marriages registered in the last winter, now Vietnamese wife silver has lived with him in Nanjing, in addition to home laundry burning rice cleaning, the wife of the old worn up to accompany him to the company take a look, followed by the teacher of the dance studio learning to dance, by the way practice to practice Chinese.
The best life of the Vietnamese wife
Considering also that house, consider the work should also consider family conditions. Seem too excessive conditions, the 28-year-old Mr. Hung is very depressing. From the rural areas of northern Jiangsu, no house no car, but every day, received his father’s phone, no matter what topic at the beginning, there will always quickly blind “to the ending. Hung does not worry in the country in Zhao Xifu some “powerless”. Not long ago, in the Forum on West Temple to see people posting about the experience in Vietnam, “a wife”.
35,000 yuan, 15 days, posting old people wearing a back to do my wife selected from more than 40 Vietnamese girl. Posted go alone to Vietnam, friends notice published in the newspaper, ushered in one by one come to “candidates” of the local girls. “There are a few really beautiful, even in Nanjing on the street will not get lost in the crowd.” Friends commented on Vietnamese girl in the old wearing a post.
Accustomed every day to 1912, the old worn can not tell in the busy Han. But in the end of last year, with 47 illustrations of the “series” posts, he and his realistic version of “Vietnam blind date in mind” with the red. Say biggest characteristic of the Vietnamese woman, and that is considerate. ”
Careful users blind date in Vietnam, every girl and old to wear to dinner, Iimori good to peel the shrimp a good shell, meat folder to his bowl, the old worn began to eat their own before The Ken Dongkuaizi. In the face of such scenes, netizens was “shocked”. “In the past, only to be told, I did not expect Vietnam so” we have encountered these things, just turn up my services to the wife … ”
The woman’s parents agree that even if the “marriage”
“Marries a foreigner is a very honorable thing, even in many villages, there must be someone who marries a foreigner rules.” Vietnam “bride economy” is not an exaggeration, Taiwanese, Hong Kong has long become accustomed. The old worn that even have a special “nurturing mother” in Vietnam, in the country to find some beautiful, would like marrying the girl, centralized and unified training instrument, cultivation, and then devoted to foreign men.
Vietnam due to years of war, male to female ratio of about 3:5, there are a lot of girls willing to marry abroad to other countries. In Viet Nam, many dating ads, “nourishing mother” made all kinds of assurance – three months married back, will not fare, lose a run away within one year. Many times in Vietnam, “Vietnamese brides” to the identity of the tour guides to help a friend find the old worn thereafter.
Want to marry a Vietnamese girl is very simple, as long as the consent of her parents, you can organize banquets As for the marriage certificate can be retroactive. “The first time I saw A Silver family, I am satisfied.” General marriage certificate handle down time takes a month or so. In the meantime, the bride usually within the training institutions run by the “nourishing mother” to learn the language and habits, handle down until the marriage certificate can be husband to take home.
“Too many foreigners to Vietnam to marry a wife, not every day you can pick up a marriage certificate, usually with 100 couples receive a marriage certificate, held a ceremony at the same time.” Is not only a collective marriage license, but also to wait for six point not be held until after dark work, all newcomers must wear suits, but also an oath before the Ho Chi Minh like.
80 banquet tables spent 10,000 yuan
As long as 80 yuan in Vietnam and the mainstream media published Personals to find the translation of a Vietnamese local, less than a week, can be identified in Vietnam, a wife, put finished banquet for a good marriage procedures. can marry a Vietnamese wife. Old wearing a reason decided to go to Vietnam to marry his wife is called from a “$ 20,000, Vietnam to buy a beautiful wife” online article. See this post from 2008, in Nanjing, has not been to find a suitable partner to 3 million Vietnamese wife in addition to the outside of curiosity and found her friends almost everyone know this thing is no one willing to go to Vietnam Take a look at the real situation.
In September 2009, the old worn alone gone to Vietnam several times after hitting the wall. Old in a ballroom dancing wearing the understanding of Vietnam’s largest “nurturing mother” (matchmaker), from more than 40 Vietnamese girls he chose a wife now. The second to go to Vietnam, the old Dai in Vietnam, his own marriage, registered in the local Justice Department, and to spend 10,000 yuan to put out a sumptuous banquet of 80 tables.
“I remember the newspaper only board partner can not board the marriage, my message is a logout, the phone ringing off the hook.” In Vietnam, the old worn encounter a variety of girls, young men through his understanding of the mainland .
User anger said
This is “buying a wife.”
“This marriage can be happy?” To marry obedient daughter-in-law practices in Vietnam, many users also put forward their point of view, “the Vietnamese wife what is to listen to you, your house, the property is not what attempt , but like a robot, so that life does not have any fun. “a lot of friends for this form of some angry, they believe that marriage requires two people co-pay, from Vietnam,” buying a wife “approach is not desirable.
But the old worn not think so. After returning home, the old wearing a site in Nanjing, posted photos and information on weddings in Vietnam, led by him, the cost of 5000 yuan of special tourism, as well as a cost of $ 35,000 of the Tourism + + wedding + marriage procedures documents. “Really very good response, I led a group to go to Vietnam have been nine times, at least once per month, at least there will be three people, up to 12 early next month, I would also like to take a group of people to, just with his wife back to the Vietnamese New Year. “old Dai said the guests in Shanghai, Beijing, Taiwan and Hong Kong, almost all of them in Vietnam to find a satisfactory wife, Nanjing consulting more than 200 people, that is, no one to go.
Vietnamese wife really none, want a girl to Nanjing to spend several hundred dollars to buy a pair of discounted shoes, she was not enough there is no grade now my wife never Xinjiekou go shopping, only to the big market was willing to talk about his wife, the old wearing is very proud of. During the conversation, he revealed that even usually buy daily necessities, the rest of the money, the wife will be handed over to, and not money so important. ”
● passport 220 yuan
● notary fees of 830 yuan
● procedures for confirmation of 300 yuan
● Vietnamese Consulate (Shanghai) visa
● Nanjing to Shanghai cost of 610 yuan
● Nanjing Fei Nanning air tickets 1880
● Vietnamese marriage fee of 1000 yuan
● intermediary and apply for marriage certificates cost
● marriage expenses of the wedding dress photography
The total cost of about 35,000 yuan