日誌[轉]淨空法師教你:如何將家過的興旺?~~~值得一看~~~ 2012-8-20 ;轉載自云中岳.

日誌[轉]淨空法師教你:如何將家過的興旺?~~~值得一看~~~ 2012-8-20 ;轉載自云中岳.

自古以來,只有“旺夫”一詞，沒有“旺婦”一詞，可見,只有女人,才能旺男人;而男人,無法旺女人。
什麼原因呢？面相學家根據面相,找到旺夫相的女人，比如,圓潤，有光澤，柔和,等等，都不是根本的原因，也做不到百分百的準確。
現在，我用從佛法的角度,跟大家談談根本的原因。

傳統文化認為，女人是水做的，而水為財，是故，女人天生就是財命，這裡的女人，是指所有的女人，而不是個別的女人。而男人的財，只是掩藏在五行水中，這個水，只是一小部分而已。所以，對於男人來講，有一句話,叫“成家,立業”，只有成家了，才能立業，所以，男人需要一個女人,來旺自己,才可以立業。一個成功的男人背後,總有一個為之默默奉獻的女人。明白了這個道理以後，旺夫的女人,就可以大批複製了。我們來看看,水的特質是什麼：

1、上善若水，水往低處流，因為，如水的女人,在家庭關係中，一定肯就下，托起滿家。自以為,婦女能頂半邊天的女強人，失去了水的本分，跟男人爭天，沒了空間，肯定克夫，一般,很容易離婚，即使有錢,也享受不到。

2、抽刀斷水,水更流，水是至柔的，水流經過的地方，遇到障礙，會自動拐彎，不會硬碰硬，水永遠不會受到傷害，面對男人大發雷霆的時候，如水的女人,善於以柔克剛，因為,只有柔能克剛，剛不能克柔，所以，如水的女人,撒撒嬌，發發嗲，耍耍賴，男人就沒了脾氣，所以,如水的女人,永遠是一家之主。以剛性為主的女人,喜歡跟男人對著幹，這個,叫“雞蛋碰石頭”，遍體鱗傷的,永遠是女人。我曾經遇到一個硬碰硬的美女，她告訴我說，以前,丈夫對自己,百依百順，結婚後,不久,丈夫就有了外遇;我告訴她，百依百順，只能依你,順你,有限的次數，不能依你,順你,一輩子，只有你,做了真女人，男人才會對你,全心全意一輩子。

3、水能滋潤萬物的成長,不留痕跡，如水的女人，總能找到男人的好處，不動聲色的誇獎男人，讚美男人，口吐蓮花，讓男人感覺,自己是個英雄，充滿了力量，下定決心,一定要保護自己柔弱的妻子，兩個人的關係,親密無間。反之，女人經常挑男人的毛病，男人的心,越來越涼，越來越沒信心
覺得,自己是個笨蛋;覺得,自己是個廢物，只能越來越走下坡路。北京一個女人問我說，她丈夫找的小三，既沒有她漂亮，也沒有她學歷高，錢也賺的沒她多，她搞不懂,自己的老公,看上小三,哪一點了，我告訴她，你老公喜歡對方的溫柔,體貼,愛語，她啞口無言。

4、未婚的女孩子，在家庭，社會，在公司，如果能做真如水的女子，找人好處，口吐蓮花，廣結善緣，遇到他人發脾氣，也能低頭認錯，微笑面對，勇挑重擔，吃苦樂受，必定得上司的賞識，步步高升。

今年10月，我在南寧佛友會期間,來了一對夫婦，男人經常打女人，我定心一觀，就跟這個男人說，你的財運,是,一年,60-100萬，只可惜，你現在,一年,只有15萬，而且,都花掉了，現在,是入不敷出。

男人睜大了眼睛,問我：師父，快給我說說原因吧。

我說：很多時候，你在談生意的時候，覺得,非常有戲,可以談成;但，到最後，卻總是事與願違，甚至,最後的結果，讓你欲哭無淚，該拿的錢,你拿不到。你知道,是什麼原因麼？

男人全身一震，兩眼放光，失聲對我說：師父，求您開示。的確,如您所說，我的境遇,一直是這樣的。

這個時候，旁邊一大群人,都做了同樣的動作，脖子伸的長長的，目不轉睛地盯著我，生怕自己,錯失了每一個字。

我看了看他，開口說：女人為水，水為財，你的妻子,是你的家財，你的家財不安，外財莫入。你想想，你是怎麼對待你妻子的，你的妻子心安麼？你的妻子心不安，家財不安，外財,怎麼敢進你的家呢？

男人看看自己的妻子，看看自己。我說，還不趕緊,跟你妻子懺悔,認錯？

男人一聽我的話，立馬翻身，跪下,給自己的妻子,磕了三個響頭，口說：老婆，我錯了。

妻子看到丈夫,給自己下跪，頓時,委屈的哭了起來，這一哭，就哭了55分鐘，我吩咐眾人，讓她哭，不要安慰，讓她把委屈,哭出來。

旺夫的秘密皆在以上，一個圓滿的家庭，需要女人,做好自己的本分，也需要男人,做好自己的本分。

接下來,10月底的北京佛友會,又遇到一對夫婦,一同前來，男人是事業有成型的，跟我討教,如何進一步提升事業。我定心一看，說：你目前,一年財運,是800-1000萬;但,很可惜，你只拿到了300萬，而且,入不敷出。男人的眼神,像被什麼吸引了一般，急促問我：

我跟他講了三點：

1、你有邪淫，萬惡,淫為首，積不善之家,必有餘秧，這個問題,洩了你的財；

2、妻子是水，水為財，家財不安，外財莫入。我說，要對你的妻子,好一點，早點,把外緣斷了。

3、女人為水，男人就是剛，要有容乃大，你有多大的肚量，就能盛多少財，你妻子不夠的，外財,會來補充;所以，作男人的，不能斤斤計較，要懂得慈悲喜捨。有人天天求財神，注定了自己是個窮人，有人經常慈悲喜捨;那麼，在別人的眼裡，他就是財神，財神沒有錢，誰還能有錢呢？男人立即表態，願意贊助20個失學兒童，並且，生意好了，會贊助更多的失學兒童。

談話中，他一直點頭，並告訴我說：的確，去年,跟妻子關係融洽的時候，訂單都接不過來;後來，跟妻子關係不好,以後，生意也不好了。

於是，我告訴他，怕老婆的家庭,都很富裕;所謂怕，不是畏懼的意思，而是疼愛，珍惜，捨不得自己老婆受委屈。

讀者註意思考，自己是否是個旺夫的女人，自己是否是一個怕自己的女人受委屈的男人。如果是，那麼恭喜你，你的家庭,一定富裕和樂,美滿。如果不是，那麼，思考一下,自己的未來吧。

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Log [rpm] clearance teach you: How to Master the thriving home for? ~ ~ ~ Worth a visit ~ ~ ~ 2012-8-20; reproduced from Yun Zhongyue.

Since ancient times, the word “Vanves”, the word “wang women, visible only woman to prosperous man; while men can not be prosperous woman.
What is the reason for this? Face sociologist based on face, to find the woman Vanves phase, for example, round, shiny, soft, and so on, are not the fundamental reason, can not do a hundred percent accurate.
Now I use from the perspective of the Dharma talk about it the underlying causes.

Traditional culture that the woman is made of water, and water for the fiscal Therefore, a woman born financial life, where women, all women, rather than the individual woman. Man Choi, just hide in the five elements of water, the water, only a small portion of it. So, for man, word, called “a family, career”, only a family can Liye, so men need a woman, to Mong own, can Liye. Behind a successful man, there is always a of whom silently dedication woman. Understand this truth, Vanves woman can be a large number of copy. What are the characteristics of the water, we take a look at:

1, on the charity, the water to flow, because water, woman, family relations, a certain Ken went down, hold up a full house. Thinks women top half of the sky as a strong woman, lost water duty, competing with men for days, no space, certainly quebracho, generally, it is easy divorce, even if the money is also not enjoy.

2 Choudao the flow of water, water is Zhirou to flow through, obstacles, automatically turning, not head-on, the water never hurt, the face of the man was furious when water woman adept softness, soft can overcome just, just can not krusei, water, woman, Sasa Jiao hair Fadia, playing shamelessly, a man no temper, so, the water, the woman is always the head of the family. Rigidity mainly women, with men like against, this called “鸡蛋碰石头” black and blue, always a woman. I once met a head of beautiful women, she told me that before, the husband of their own, obedience, get married, and soon, her husband will have an affair; I told her, obedience, and which can only be you shun you, a limited number of times, not according to you, shun you forever, only you do a real woman, a man before you, wholeheartedly lifetime.

, Hydro nourishing the growth of all things, without leaving any traces, water, woman, men can always find the benefits, quietly praise men praise the man, vomit Lotus, make a man feel that he is a hero, full of strength, determined, must protect the own effeminate wife, the relationship of two people, intimacy. Conversely, women often pick a man’s problems, the hearts of men, more and more cold, more and more do not have confidence in
Feel that he is a fool; think, is a waste, only more and more downhill. Beijing a woman asked me to say her husband to find a small, neither she is beautiful, not her qualifications, the money did she earn more, she do not understand, her husband, took a fancy to small three points were the tell her that your husband like the other gentle, thoughtful, words of love, she was speechless.

4, unmarried girls in the family, the community, the company, if a woman can do, as the water, to find someone to benefit vomit Lotus many friends encounter others temper, can eat their words, smiling face , heavy responsibilities, music by hardship, superiors must have appreciated, onward and upward.

In October of this year, I During in Nanning Foyou will, to a couple men often hit a woman, I centering a concept, just like the man said, you make money, ,60-1000000, only Unfortunately, you are now a year, only 15 million, and have spent, and now, is to make ends meet.

Man widened his eyes, asked me: Master, give me talk about the reasons for it.

I said: In many cases, when you talk business, I feel very Me, can be negotiated; but, in the end, they always backfire, even the final results, allow you to tears, if the money is you could not get. You know, what is the reason for it?

Man body startled, his eyes shining, uncontrollably, I said: Master, you are asked to open shows. Indeed, as you said, my situation has been like this.

This time, next to a large group of people are doing the same movements, neck stretched long, staring at me, for fear of their own missed every word.

I looked at him, he said: the woman is water, water for the money, your wife, your family wealth, your family wealth unrest outside fiscal Mo into. Think about it, how you treat your wife, your wife peace of mind it? Your wife feel upset, disturbed family wealth, foreign money into your house, how dare?

Man look at his wife, and see for yourself. I said, do not hurry, repent, admit with your wife?

Man a I then immediately turn over, kneel, to his wife, knock three ring head, mouth said: my wife, I was wrong.

Wife to see her husband, knelt before him, suddenly, the aggrieved cry up this cry, cry for 55 minutes, I commanded the people to let her cry, do not comfort her wronged cry out.

Vanves secrets are in more than a successful family, you need a woman, to do their part, also need men to do their part.

Next, the end of October, the Beijing Buddhist Friends, encountered a couple to come together, men and successful career, to me for advice, how to further enhance the career. I centering a look: your current year wealth is 800-1000; but, unfortunately, you only get 300 million, and, to make ends meet. Man’s eyes, like what attracted general, shortness asked me:

I told him three things:

1, you have played the harlot, the root of all evil, kinky headed home plot shortcomings, will more than seedlings this question, vent your fiscal;

, His wife is water, water for the money, into the the family wealth unrest outside fiscal Mo. I said, your wife better breakfast off the outer edge.

3, the woman is water, is just a man, to have tolerance is a virtue, you have a much magnanimous, will be able to Sheng Choi, your wife is not enough, foreign money will supplement; Therefore, the man’s not preoccupied, Know how to Cibei Xi homes. Someone every day, seeking God of Wealth, destined to own is a poor, was often ruin homes; then, in the eyes of others, he is the God of Wealth, the God of Wealth do not have the money, who is also the money it? Immediately declare a man willing to sponsor 20 children out of school, and business is good, will sponsor more children out of school.

Conversation, he nodded, and told me: Indeed, last year, when relations with his wife, orders are then, however; later bad relationship with his wife, later, business is not good.

So, I told him, henpecked family, very wealthy; afraid of the so-called, is not afraid of the meaning, but love and cherish reluctant to leave his wife to wronged.

The reader’s attention to think whether Vanves woman, if they are afraid of a woman wronged man. If it is, then congratulations, you, your family, a certain wealthy and music, and contentment. If it is not, then, to think about their future.

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日志[转]净空法师教你:如何将家过的兴旺?~~~值得一看~~~ 2012-8-20 ;转载自云中岳.

自古以来,只有“旺夫”一词，没有“旺妇”一词，可见,只有女人,才能旺男人;而男人,无法旺女人。
什么原因呢？面相学家根据面相,找到旺夫相的女人，比如,圆润，有光泽，柔和,等等，都不是根本的原因，也做不到百分百的准确。
现在，我用从佛法的角度,跟大家谈谈根本的原因。

传统文化认为，女人是水做的，而水为财，是故，女人天生就是财命，这里的女人，是指所有的女人，而不是个别的女人。而男人的财，只是掩藏在五行水中，这个水，只是一小部分而已。所以，对于男人来讲，有一句话,叫“成家,立业”，只有成家了，才能立业，所以，男人需要一个女人,来旺自己,才可以立业。一个成功的男人背后,总有一个为之默默奉献的女人。明白了这个道理以后，旺夫的女人,就可以大批复制了。我们来看看,水的特质是什么：

1、上善若水，水往低处流，因为，如水的女人,在家庭关系中，一定肯就下，托起满家。自以为,妇女能顶半边天的女强人，失去了水的本分，跟男人争天，没了空间，肯定克夫，一般,很容易离婚，即使有钱,也享受不到。

2、抽刀断水,水更流，水是至柔的，水流经过的地方，遇到障碍，会自动拐弯，不会硬碰硬，水永远不会受到伤害，面对男人大发雷霆的时候，如水的女人,善于以柔克刚，因为,只有柔能克刚，刚不能克柔，所以，如水的女人,撒撒娇，发发嗲，耍耍赖，男人就没了脾气，所以,如水的女人,永远是一家之主。以刚性为主的女人,喜欢跟男人对着干，这个,叫“鸡蛋碰石头”，遍体鳞伤的,永远是女人。我曾经遇到一个硬碰硬的美女，她告诉我说，以前,丈夫对自己,百依百顺，结婚后,不久,丈夫就有了外遇;我告诉她，百依百顺，只能依你,顺你,有限的次数，不能依你,顺你,一辈子，只有你,做了真女人，男人才会对你,全心全意一辈子。

3、水能滋润万物的成长,不留痕迹，如水的女人，总能找到男人的好处，不动声色的夸奖男人，赞美男人，口吐莲花，让男人感觉,自己是个英雄，充满了力量，下定决心,一定要保护自己柔弱的妻子，两个人的关系,亲密无间。反之，女人经常挑男人的毛病，男人的心,越来越凉，越来越没信心
觉得,自己是个笨蛋;觉得,自己是个废物，只能越来越走下坡路。北京一个女人问我说，她丈夫找的小三，既没有她漂亮，也没有她学历高，钱也赚的没她多，她搞不懂,自己的老公,看上小三,哪一点了，我告诉她，你老公喜欢对方的温柔,体贴,爱语，她哑口无言。

4、未婚的女孩子，在家庭，社会，在公司，如果能做真如水的女子，找人好处，口吐莲花，广结善缘，遇到他人发脾气，也能低头认错，微笑面对，勇挑重担，吃苦乐受，必定得上司的赏识，步步高升。

今年10月，我在南宁佛友会期间,来了一对夫妇，男人经常打女人，我定心一观，就跟这个男人说，你的财运,是,一年,60-100万，只可惜，你现在,一年,只有15万，而且,都花掉了，现在,是入不敷出。

男人睁大了眼睛,问我：师父，快给我说说原因吧。

我说：很多时候，你在谈生意的时候，觉得,非常有戏,可以谈成;但，到最后，却总是事与愿违，甚至,最后的结果，让你欲哭无泪，该拿的钱,你拿不到。你知道,是什么原因么？

男人全身一震，两眼放光，失声对我说：师父，求您开示。的确,如您所说，我的境遇,一直是这样的。

这个时候，旁边一大群人,都做了同样的动作，脖子伸的长长的，目不转睛地盯着我，生怕自己,错失了每一个字。

我看了看他，开口说：女人为水，水为财，你的妻子,是你的家财，你的家财不安，外财莫入。你想想，你是怎么对待你妻子的，你的妻子心安么？你的妻子心不安，家财不安，外财,怎么敢进你的家呢？

男人看看自己的妻子，看看自己。我说，还不赶紧,跟你妻子忏悔,认错？

男人一听我的话，立马翻身，跪下,给自己的妻子,磕了三个响头，口说：老婆，我错了。

妻子看到丈夫,给自己下跪，顿时,委屈的哭了起来，这一哭，就哭了55分钟，我吩咐众人，让她哭，不要安慰，让她把委屈,哭出来。

旺夫的秘密皆在以上，一个圆满的家庭，需要女人,做好自己的本分，也需要男人,做好自己的本分。

接下来,10月底的北京佛友会,又遇到一对夫妇,一同前来，男人是事业有成型的，跟我讨教,如何进一步提升事业。我定心一看，说：你目前,一年财运,是800-1000万;但,很可惜，你只拿到了300万，而且,入不敷出。 男人的眼神,像被什么吸引了一般，急促问我：

我跟他讲了三点：

1、你有邪淫，万恶,淫为首，积不善之家,必有余秧，这个问题,泄了你的财；

2、妻子是水，水为财，家财不安，外财莫入。我说，要对你的妻子,好一点，早点,把外缘断了。

3、女人为水，男人就是刚，要有容乃大，你有多大的肚量，就能盛多少财，你妻子不够的，外财,会来补充;所以，作男人的，不能斤斤计较，要懂得慈悲喜舍。有人天天求财神，注定了自己是个穷人，有人经常慈悲喜舍;那么，在别人的眼里，他就是财神，财神没有钱，谁还能有钱呢？男人立即表态，愿意赞助20个失学儿童，并且，生意好了，会赞助更多的失学儿童。

谈话中，他一直点头，并告诉我说：的确，去年,跟妻子关系融洽的时候，订单都接不过来;后来，跟妻子关系不好,以后，生意也不好了。

于是，我告诉他，怕老婆的家庭,都很富裕;所谓怕，不是畏惧的意思，而是疼爱，珍惜，舍不得自己老婆受委屈。

读者注意思考，自己是否是个旺夫的女人，自己是否是一个怕自己的女人受委屈的男人。如果是，那么恭喜你，你的家庭,一定富裕和乐,美满。如果不是，那么，思考一下,自己的未来吧。

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